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5 tips for nursing mamas

by Melanie Venuti • February 1st, 2016

1.) Breastfeeding can HURT…but it shouldn’t.
After your baby is born, and you and your baby are learning to breastfeed together. Sometimes it can be a little bit uncomfortable, and this is when you want to ask for help. When breastfeeding is painful, it typically means that something isn’t right with positioning, latch, engorgement, or even water retention or swelling. A Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) has knowledge and experience working in the field of maternal and child health and has specialized skills in breastfeeding management. IBCLC’s use a problem solving approach and provide evidence-based information to breastfeeding women and make appropriate recommendations as needed to ensure breastfeeding success. Breastfeeding help is available!

2.) “It Takes a Village to Raise a Child.”
You can read books, take classes, and talk to friends and family to prepare for the arrival of your little one, but it’s also a great idea to take advantage of this community when your baby is born. Don’t be afraid to ask for help! Send an email with questions to the instructor of your newborn care or breastfeeding class. Reach out to friends and coworkers who have children for tips. Allow family to cook, clean and do laundry so you can rest.

3.) To make milk, you have to feed your baby.
Breast milk production starts during pregnancy. At about 18-20 weeks a woman’s body starts to produce colostum, baby’s first milk. After delivery, the endocrine control system continues to drive milk production, meaning that milk starts to increase by volume at about 36 hours due to changes in hormones. After milk has come in, production works via supply and demand. The more milk the baby takes the more the mother makes. So, feed your baby early and often!

4.) Some women have TOO MUCH milk.
Oversupply is a very real situation for some women. If your baby gags, chokes or pulls off the breast during the feeding or seems to have an uncomfortable gassy tummy, or if you are feeling “full” all the time or see sprays of milk coming from the breast upon stimulation, it is possible you have an oversupply. Talk to your IBCLC for what to do.

5.) You can enjoy your much-needed cocktail.
Alcohol does pass into breastmilk, and after one drink (1 beer, glass of wine, 1 mixed cocktail) typically peaks at about 30-60 minutes after consumption. Alcohol also passes out of a mother’s milk and her system, within 2-3 hours, making it safe to resume breastfeeding. Just like blood alcohol level, of course, the more alcohol that is consumed, the longer this process takes. “An occasional celebratory single, small alcoholic drink is acceptable, but breastfeeding should be avoided for 2 hours after the drink” as stated by the American Academy of Pediatrics.

Looking for Breastfeeding Support? Take a breastfeeding class, talk to one of our lactation consultants in the boston area or drop in to our breastfeeding group.

References:

http://www.lalecheleague.org/faq/alcohol.html
http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/115/2/496.full

How does milk production work?

Postpartum Depression

by Melanie Venuti • January 25th, 2016

Congratulations! You have just given birth to a beautiful baby! Everyone around you is so happy and excited for you and your partner. You, however, are feeling a bit confused; you love your baby but still feel so, so sad.

You are not alone. Childbirth and new parenthood can trigger a jumble of emotions from joy to extreme fear, as well as something unexpected: depression. About 9-16% of women experience Postpartum Depression (PPD) and up to 80% of women report having some degree of Baby Blues after delivery.

Baby Blues may include symptoms of anxiety, mood swings and crying spells, and almost always resolves after the first 2-3 weeks. Some women however, experience more severe symptoms and this is characterized as Postpartum Depression.

If you experience symptoms of Baby Blues or PPD, help is available for south shore moms.

Symptoms of Baby Blues (for first 2-3 weeks)

Mood swings
Anxiety
Sadness
Irritability
Crying
Trouble sleeping
Symptoms of PPD (beyond 2 weeks)

Loss of appetite
Insomnia
Intense irritability or anger
Lack of joy in life (especially with baby)
Feelings of guilt or inadequacy
Difficulty bonding with baby
Thoughts of harming self or baby
Causes of postpartum depression.

Hormonal changes
Emotional factors
Exhaustion
Overwhelmed
Stressed
Lack of support from family or partner
Financial difficulties
Outside responsibilities including caring for demanding older siblings
Other risk factors:

Family history of mental illness
Previous history of depression or anxiety disorders
If you suspect you may have symptoms of PPD, contact your health care provider immediately and discuss your options. Postpartum depression is a treatable condition that most mothers overcome within a few months.

Postpartum Depression Support for South Shore Moms:

South Shore Postpartum Support Network
24/7 Parents Helping Parents Line: 1-800-632-8188
Postpartum Support Group
Post Partum Progress
Sign up for a New Moms Class with New Arrivals Educators!
Talk with your OBGYN or PCP about a referral to a mental health counselor

references:

www.postpartum.org
www.womenshealth.gov
www.mayoclinic.org
www.depressionafterdelivery.com

Preparing for Motherhood

by Margaret Breen • January 25th, 2016

As soon as you discover you are pregnant, a whole new world opens up to you! It can be such an exciting time – but also very stressful.

All the anticipation and joy of having a new baby also can cause anxiety as you are flooded with information related to pregnancy, hospitals, doctors, midwives, baby registries, birth, caring for your new baby, breastfeeding, daycare, and more. There is so much to learn! Many new moms wonder, “How will my body change during pregnancy? What can I do to help myself have a healthy pregnancy and baby? What will my labor and birth be like? Will I be a good mom?” Partners wonder, “How can I help her during the pregnancy and birth? How will our lives change after the baby is born? Am I ready to have a baby in my life?”

Rest assured, most new parents share many of these same concerns. It is important to remember that all of this new information does not have to be learned overnight. There is plenty of time to prepare. The average first-time pregnancy is 39.5 to 41 weeks long, giving parents-to-be many months to learn and begin to adjust. Take it one day at a time.

First, focus on having a healthy pregnancy. Follow the guidelines from your health care provider. Be sure to “check-in” every day with your baby. Sit in a comfortable place, put your hands on the lower abdomen over the baby, close your eyes and take slow, deep breaths. Think about your baby and speak to your baby! (Baby’s ears start to develop at 5 weeks in utero and baby can hear your voice by 16 weeks.) This daily “check-in” with your baby will not only help you control your anxiety, but it will also keep you focused on what is important: the health and well-being of the baby.

By your 28th week of pregnancy, be sure to sign up for prenatal classes such as New Arrival Educators’ Childbirth Education, Breastfeeding, Newborn Care and Infant CPR and Safety Classes. These classes will help you feel more empowered and confident for your birth and your baby. You will learn tips and strategies to help you move through this transitional time more smoothly. Know what to expect and empower yourself to be an active participant in your birth and the care of your baby.

The first days and weeks after the baby is born continue to be a very transitional time. You will need help. Plan for it! Who is in your support village? Make a contact list of family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, health care providers, “In-Home” Lactation Consultant (New Arrival Educators), therapist, fitness club, and more. Look to connect with other new moms to learn from each other, feel supported and understood, and to have fun and make new friends! Join a new mom and baby group like Over The Moon Group and Baby and Me Group. It is one of the best things you do for yourself and your baby!

Congratulations and we hope to see your little family in class!

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